Tell me if I'm wrong here. My W has a major problem with me having a gay male friend. It's not religious thing. She isn't religious at all, plus she has gay male and female friends.
I've known this guy for 20+ years. When we first became friends (late teens), he was "undecided" and forcing himself to date women. We lost contact for nearly 20 years, and then started talking again about a year ago. He lives 1000+ miles away. Since catching up again, we've spoken by phone 4-5 times. We'll email on a topic for a few days, and then nothing for weeks. Mostly dumb guy shyte...politics, movies, etc. He's intelligent and opinionated, and I enjoy our email exhanges. But...that's it. I'm 100% hetero, and have never given my W any reason to think otherwise. My friend is quite clear that I'm hetero, and he has NEVER attempted to cross any lines...period. The rest of my friends are hetero.
Please don't bash gays here. That's not my question. Question is, would you have a problem with this, and would you expect and demand that your H should end a friendship like this?
I've known this guy for 20+ years. When we first became friends (late teens), he was "undecided" and forcing himself to date women. We lost contact for nearly 20 years, and then started talking again about a year ago. He lives 1000+ miles away. Since catching up again, we've spoken by phone 4-5 times. We'll email on a topic for a few days, and then nothing for weeks. Mostly dumb guy shyte...politics, movies, etc. He's intelligent and opinionated, and I enjoy our email exhanges. But...that's it. I'm 100% hetero, and have never given my W any reason to think otherwise. My friend is quite clear that I'm hetero, and he has NEVER attempted to cross any lines...period. The rest of my friends are hetero.
Please don't bash gays here. That's not my question. Question is, would you have a problem with this, and would you expect and demand that your H should end a friendship like this?
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