So my wife and I have been married for almost 12 years and together for 15. We have 3 wonderful children. Unknown to me about 5 years ago some of my behavior started to effect my wife in a very negative way. I had some anger issues, and crazy enough never thought it was as bad as it was. I did finally see the error of my ways and started working on it. Now before that happened I also started a very foolish internet relationship with another woman. My life was spiraling out of control. The guilt from what I did was so great that I tried to justify it. In doing that of course I was pushing my wife away further. I don't know how to explain where I was at in my life. Looking back it was horrible. I was horrible to my wife. The fact she stuck with me was amazing. Well we did counseling and thought things were on a better path. The problem is that my wife never revealed all her feelings in regards to the anger. Fast forward and recently I caught her doing same thing I did. I confronted her and forgave her on the spot. I knew I couldn't judge her. I also wanted to truly work on our marriage. She wasn't so sure she did. Long story short is that I am fighting so hard for this marriage, and she hasn't walked out but says she is still really hurt by damage my anger caused. She isn't hoping for divorce but she also can't say that what we have is going to work. She says she wants to work on herself first and foremost and that she is unsure if I will be apart of her life after that. I do believe that this can be repaired but want to know if there is anything I can do to help repair her hurt? I'm showering her with love and trying to do everything around the house to just give her space and time. Is my situation hopeless?
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