First I'm thankful I found this site, I will try to make this as short as possible. I have been married for 18 years, with 2 common children and 1 stepchild. My wife was 22 I was 23 at the time of marriage, for the first 10 years of our marriage, there were numerous occasions where I suspected her of cheating, due to text messages unaccounted time, highly agitated when questioned about it etc. I let it go due to the children and tried to do whatever I could to keep her focused on the marriage, I was the primary breadwinner, she was a stay at home mom, as a result, the house was always filthy, meals never cooked laundry strewn everywhere, just a mess, I would come home after 10 hour shifts and clean till I went to bed. Due to her flirtatious ways with men and the constant suspicion, I felt as a last ditch attempt maybe a move would be a new start, as a result we moved a few states away. We had a golden opportunity present itself to us, that very few people ever have the chance of, and financially we were very well off, however after about a year and with the kids getting older she began to almost revert back to a 14 year old mentality, driving our youngest 12 year old over 100 miles away to meet up with boys in person that she had met online Facebook twitter etc, holding conversation with our 13 year old that were truly something that you would here on a school yard and giggling with her about it. This has not ceased over the past 3 years and my wife continues to act like a 14 year old doing selfies, with provocative pictures etc. during this time our non common child began using drugs which led to stealing many thousands of dollars from me, out of our room while sleeping as well as numerous material items, my wife was in denial until his 5 recent arrests, which led to numerous drug diversion programs instead of juvenile detention which were all unsuccessful, as I type he continues to steal but essentially my wife the enabler feels he can do no wrong, last week I was missing some high ticket laptops, and upon my wife confronting him, he told her that he was " sick of my stupid ass accusing him of **** and that I need to leave" he then stated that either "I leave or he leaves" I told him that I could call the authorities and let them deal with it , but my wife got enraged at me instead leading to her stating that perhaps I should leave for a while to let him cool down and that she has to take her child side no matter what. I have remained separated in the house from her while she takes the kids to fun days etc. yes I know it's completely bizarre. Please keep in mind that since he has failed every diversion program, the last one available he declined to participate explaining to the judge that he enjoys drugs and will not stop doing them regardless, my wife offered to get him a medical card, because she feels that he should be able to smoke weed to help him relax and avert the law. Moving in reve rse my daughter has random boys over frequently and my wife is fine with this. This is the mild version, off the topic our sex life has been 1 position for many years when it does occur, not to be crude but she refuse to present oral sex, she refuses to get on top, the only position is missionary, if I'm tired she still wants foreplay for at least 10 minutes. She won't kiss me etc. a little about me I've been considered by the majority of women an 8 and in very good physical shape, my wife has been considered a 3 and at times people don't believe we are married as they call it the odd couple please help me out here, is there a nest step?
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