Hello,
This is the first time I have ever been in a forum. A few close friends suggested this to get a mutal opinon outside the relationship. I have been married for 7 years. The first couple of years were great but things have taken a turn into a very unhappy relationship. I try to be the best husband I can be. I do luandry, cook, clean, take care of our son and etc.... But no matter how much I do our how much I try to please my spouse. It always backfires on me. Her friends tell her how lucky she is to have me as a husband and I get blamed and yelled for everything. I work around 50-60 hours a week while my wife works 3- eight hour days. I work nights and she works Monday-Wendesday. My son stays at a daycare through the week which I get him ready and take him to in the mornings when I get home from working a 16 hour day. So I try to spend as much time with my family as possible when I am off. I just ask to take a nap here and there because I dont get to sleep much. So I am told I am a lazy father because I want to take a nap. Because she works harder then I do and she is tired also. No matter how much I do or give my wife I never get a thank you or any kind of apprecation. I give her thanks all the time for how much she does. But I am worthless and do not deserve any thanks. Her sister has pointed out to me she is turning into her mother. Which sucks because her father is depressed as hell. My happiness has declined in the last couple of years. I am sorry I am airing my business out to everybody. I just want to see if I am making a valid compliant. Plus our love life has extremely diminshed. I always tell how beautiful she is and compliment her on her hair and everything. but the only time we get intimate is when she feels like it and all the attention is devoted to her and she could care less about my needs. My feelings do not matter at all. But with that being said I have stayed faithful to my wife. I have been cheated on in previous relationships. It sucks but thats life.
I just dont understand what to do in this situation. I mentioned counseling to her and she said it would be a good idea for me to talk to somebody. Really I am at fault again as always. So I apologize for my venting. I wish I new what to do. My son means the world to me and I dont want to make him go through or experinence a divorce. I just don't think my wife is going to change her ways. So I am sadly falling out of love with her.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I am at my marital end.
This is the first time I have ever been in a forum. A few close friends suggested this to get a mutal opinon outside the relationship. I have been married for 7 years. The first couple of years were great but things have taken a turn into a very unhappy relationship. I try to be the best husband I can be. I do luandry, cook, clean, take care of our son and etc.... But no matter how much I do our how much I try to please my spouse. It always backfires on me. Her friends tell her how lucky she is to have me as a husband and I get blamed and yelled for everything. I work around 50-60 hours a week while my wife works 3- eight hour days. I work nights and she works Monday-Wendesday. My son stays at a daycare through the week which I get him ready and take him to in the mornings when I get home from working a 16 hour day. So I try to spend as much time with my family as possible when I am off. I just ask to take a nap here and there because I dont get to sleep much. So I am told I am a lazy father because I want to take a nap. Because she works harder then I do and she is tired also. No matter how much I do or give my wife I never get a thank you or any kind of apprecation. I give her thanks all the time for how much she does. But I am worthless and do not deserve any thanks. Her sister has pointed out to me she is turning into her mother. Which sucks because her father is depressed as hell. My happiness has declined in the last couple of years. I am sorry I am airing my business out to everybody. I just want to see if I am making a valid compliant. Plus our love life has extremely diminshed. I always tell how beautiful she is and compliment her on her hair and everything. but the only time we get intimate is when she feels like it and all the attention is devoted to her and she could care less about my needs. My feelings do not matter at all. But with that being said I have stayed faithful to my wife. I have been cheated on in previous relationships. It sucks but thats life.
I just dont understand what to do in this situation. I mentioned counseling to her and she said it would be a good idea for me to talk to somebody. Really I am at fault again as always. So I apologize for my venting. I wish I new what to do. My son means the world to me and I dont want to make him go through or experinence a divorce. I just don't think my wife is going to change her ways. So I am sadly falling out of love with her.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I am at my marital end.
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