Basic background.
Been with her for two years+
- 6 months into the relationship she went out with a friend to a pub one night, met a guy, exchanged numbers (didn't tell him she had a bf at the time)
- Hid the fact she had his number, only after numerous texts from him at night (that would wake me up) I finally saw the texts and name and asked her who it was, she came clean, told me it was simply a dude she met at the pub and they wanted to be friends, she has him on facebook too
- Apparently he texted her saying he wanted to meet her, come around her place and be with her (im assuming to get intimate) which she told me about, and that she kindly declined
- They meet on public transport very often too, when they're both going to work (she tells me about this so im assuming shes being honest with me)
- I let everything slide
1 year later
- I had access to her Hotmail email address. Clicked on her 'onedrive' (cloud storage where you can instantly save pics from ur phone onto ur cloud storage attatched to ur Hotmail)
- Clicked pictures, went on saved pics, she has pics of this guy topless, with a towel hiding his erection and many other pictures of him working out in the gym. This was all stored in the 'saved pictures' folder, meaning she must have received this pictures from him and simply clicked saved, meaning she wanted to cherish them. I found more pictures, screenshots, specifically of her trying to find him on Skype, e.g picture taken of the Skype search bar with his name and his picture showing.
- She left her facebook signed in one day, automatically I was curious about this 'friend' she met at the pub, went onto his profile, his DOB wasn't showing up. She wished him happy birthday, a very long, caring message too. Three other people alongside her wished him happy birthday. Since he doesn't have his DOB on facebook this must mean she (my gf) memorized his birthday by heart.
Now I am at a dilemma here. I confronted her about the pictures on her phone about the guy in question, I simply said 'oh u were scrolling through ur phone the other week and I forgot to ask who that picture of the guy in the towel was of' I didn't let her know I have access to her Hotmail address. She put on a good act and started searching her phone for the picture and I was next to her but nothing was found. What I assume is that she saved the pic on her phone, then moved it onto her cloud storage and then deleted the pic from her phone
Secondly I have confronted her about the happy birthday on facebook thing, I jokingly asked her if she wished her friend from the pub happy birthday. She said no, not only that. Her exact words were 'no way I don't even remember his birthday since facebook doesn't show it' (little does she know I already saw her post the long, caring happy birthday message on his wall from her (which she memorized since his I checked his fb and it doesn't show his DOB
Now the question I ask myself why is she lieing about all this? if shes lied about things like this then surely she lied to me when I first asked her if she slept or kiss the guy she met from the pub?
Would you say these are red signals from her? what should I do? if you've read this far then I appreciate it a lot, I just don't know who else I can trust or speak to about this
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