So I asked out this girl this afternoon, first time I've ever asked a girl out before.
She said 'yeah sure' and that 'she's looking forward to it'.
I said I'll be in contact with her, I'll send her a text or speak to her I've I see her before-
Shall I text her and say 'hey on Monday do you want to do xyz with me?' Or should I ask her what she would like to do?
And when should I text her? Sunday?
We are both quite busy so we are meeting Monday- do I send her a card for valentines day? Do something sweet? Or would that be taking things too fast, and maybe out her off? I have heard her say that she doesn't think much of Valentines, that it's commercial, etc, etc.
Should I just see how things unravel on Monday first?
Also in case things go well, and I'm able to set up a second date- Thursday is when I know she's free, and it's the last day I'm free for a bit...but is this too soon after the first date? Or does it big matter?
Apologies for the long post and possibly overthinking- this is new and exiting territory for me, and advise would be greatly appreciated! :)
She said 'yeah sure' and that 'she's looking forward to it'.
I said I'll be in contact with her, I'll send her a text or speak to her I've I see her before-
Shall I text her and say 'hey on Monday do you want to do xyz with me?' Or should I ask her what she would like to do?
And when should I text her? Sunday?
We are both quite busy so we are meeting Monday- do I send her a card for valentines day? Do something sweet? Or would that be taking things too fast, and maybe out her off? I have heard her say that she doesn't think much of Valentines, that it's commercial, etc, etc.
Should I just see how things unravel on Monday first?
Also in case things go well, and I'm able to set up a second date- Thursday is when I know she's free, and it's the last day I'm free for a bit...but is this too soon after the first date? Or does it big matter?
Apologies for the long post and possibly overthinking- this is new and exiting territory for me, and advise would be greatly appreciated! :)
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