My life fell apart in a heap after finding out about my husbands affair. That was in 2012. we had a huge mortgage and just could not afford to separate even if we wanted to.
Fast forward to now. things have been ok. However last week we sold our other house so can virtually pay off our mortgage. This gives us choices. for me I have been very quiet and pondering my future. Not a day goes by when I think about the affair. I am still even now shipwrecked. When we got married 17 years ago I had his great aunts wedding ring. About 2 years ago I thought that his sister should have it to keep it in their family. I have asked a few times since then if my husband can get me another one. He has yet to do so. I am not interested in an expensive one, just a token of his commitment. He has never worn one.
I will never come to terms with his affair. I can't forgive him. We are just plodding along as "normal". I know we need to talk , just not sure I want to.
Thanks for listening.
Fast forward to now. things have been ok. However last week we sold our other house so can virtually pay off our mortgage. This gives us choices. for me I have been very quiet and pondering my future. Not a day goes by when I think about the affair. I am still even now shipwrecked. When we got married 17 years ago I had his great aunts wedding ring. About 2 years ago I thought that his sister should have it to keep it in their family. I have asked a few times since then if my husband can get me another one. He has yet to do so. I am not interested in an expensive one, just a token of his commitment. He has never worn one.
I will never come to terms with his affair. I can't forgive him. We are just plodding along as "normal". I know we need to talk , just not sure I want to.
Thanks for listening.
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