45- male- married 16 years- 3 kids....
I've had it with her- (and don't beat me up!)
the last year or two she has completely let herself go...She gained an easy 100+ pounds and the laziness is out of control.
She sleeps constantly-(couch-etc)- even the kids are getting frustrated- I sat her down several times in a nice way- I've been the nice guy- (offered to help)- said I'm concerned about her health etc- ... nothing works and I think it's because she does not sense a real threat that I will leave- but I feel that will be the only thing to get thru to her?
She can barely walk- complains....(yes I think she is depressed)- I've tried every positive angle I can- Now I'm just frustrated and resentful- There is zero attraction there- I'm so far checked out- even other people notice.. but I'm always the "nice guy" who would never leave and hurt his family...I feel trapped since I don't have the strength to leave (even if it was temporary)- I'm stressed beyond stressed- Please offer some help- I'm not really a bad person- I just want to be happy
I've had it with her- (and don't beat me up!)
the last year or two she has completely let herself go...She gained an easy 100+ pounds and the laziness is out of control.
She sleeps constantly-(couch-etc)- even the kids are getting frustrated- I sat her down several times in a nice way- I've been the nice guy- (offered to help)- said I'm concerned about her health etc- ... nothing works and I think it's because she does not sense a real threat that I will leave- but I feel that will be the only thing to get thru to her?
She can barely walk- complains....(yes I think she is depressed)- I've tried every positive angle I can- Now I'm just frustrated and resentful- There is zero attraction there- I'm so far checked out- even other people notice.. but I'm always the "nice guy" who would never leave and hurt his family...I feel trapped since I don't have the strength to leave (even if it was temporary)- I'm stressed beyond stressed- Please offer some help- I'm not really a bad person- I just want to be happy
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