well, 11 years ago i would have never thought I'd be posting in a place like this honestly. BUT I need things to be better, so this is me, and my hubby who will be making his account shortly, taking a step in the right direction I hope.
I am Christina or Rocker, I am 28 years old and have been married for 11 years thus far, Hubby and I have 7 kids together, yes they are all his, but I know deep down he has his doubts, he has asked.
I never cheated sexually, but I did cheat emotionally on him, and I know that I am the one who has the blame, even though our marriage was really bad and he had me really down and depressed, I should have gone a different way with it. I met a guy he used to play games with and he treated me and talked to me like I was a human, which i didnt feel very human at that time, he had seen past my depression and such and that was what sparked it. After a lil while and a few meetings I fell for this guy and told my hubby that there was another guy and I loved him and that he needed to leave. It really hurt and hit my hubby and he saw that things had spiraled to rock bottom in our marriage and I saw that he would change, so in the end I chose my hubby, and while I still dont regret my decision, I am still untrusted by him, which, dont get me wrong, I get it, I really do, but I do find it unfair, and whatever theres no other way of saying it but I stayed with him and let him treat me th e way he did for 9 years before I made that mistake and part of me feels like he was kinda to blame for me being so vulnerable to it. Anyways, its been 3 years since that happened but its still fresh in his mind I think, and I really dont think he will ever trust me again, I seem to keep making mistakes, none like that one but many others, and I also have borderline personality disorder to top it off, but yea, so heres my intro. Hoping to making new friends on here and giving support as well as getting it. I have been through alot of things in life and may not be able to give advice but can damned well give my experience on subjects.
I am Christina or Rocker, I am 28 years old and have been married for 11 years thus far, Hubby and I have 7 kids together, yes they are all his, but I know deep down he has his doubts, he has asked.
I never cheated sexually, but I did cheat emotionally on him, and I know that I am the one who has the blame, even though our marriage was really bad and he had me really down and depressed, I should have gone a different way with it. I met a guy he used to play games with and he treated me and talked to me like I was a human, which i didnt feel very human at that time, he had seen past my depression and such and that was what sparked it. After a lil while and a few meetings I fell for this guy and told my hubby that there was another guy and I loved him and that he needed to leave. It really hurt and hit my hubby and he saw that things had spiraled to rock bottom in our marriage and I saw that he would change, so in the end I chose my hubby, and while I still dont regret my decision, I am still untrusted by him, which, dont get me wrong, I get it, I really do, but I do find it unfair, and whatever theres no other way of saying it but I stayed with him and let him treat me th e way he did for 9 years before I made that mistake and part of me feels like he was kinda to blame for me being so vulnerable to it. Anyways, its been 3 years since that happened but its still fresh in his mind I think, and I really dont think he will ever trust me again, I seem to keep making mistakes, none like that one but many others, and I also have borderline personality disorder to top it off, but yea, so heres my intro. Hoping to making new friends on here and giving support as well as getting it. I have been through alot of things in life and may not be able to give advice but can damned well give my experience on subjects.
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