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Collateral Damage

Thought I would share this post here as well. Please keep in mind I am just venting and I know my thoughts might seem ridiculous...

My husband was out drinking with co-workers and ended up in bed with the spouse of one of his co-workers. He told me right away. He has apologized for his actions to all parties that are aware. I have forgiven him but I am still angry at the position we are in. Needless to say, with all of those things aside, the co-worker wants my husband to resign, immediately. He also shared the information with their immediate supervisor and he wants him out as well or he has threatened to fire him. My husband has no issues resigning, but asked for time to find another job...we too still have to eat.

I think I am angry because this woman is just as much to blame yet, he wants my husband to resign?! I want to ell him to MAN UP! My husband has to deal with his actions and so do I and I think the same should apply to he and his wife! He should resign too! Who's husband will she sleep with next?! Does he think that I want to be around his wife at the next company function and have to see her face? Don't they know that whatever feelings /thoughts he has had toward my husband I have had the same feelings /thoughts about his wife? So I'm stuck in a corner, left feeling like collateral damage

I know that by the grace of the Almighty, I will move past this eventually. But today I needed to vent!

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