I just found out - over last weekend - that DH no longer loves/likes me. Says he still "cares" - whatever that means. Trying to sort things out. He has always been Passive Aggressive. I found out because I was tired of him making snide remarks and asked him why he kept doing this.
In thinking back on things I am wondering if I have been just plain stupid about some things. We have some great neighbors -husband and wife - but have not been extremely close. We don't do dinners or hang out. We talk to them every few days if we are out in the yard and they have bailed us out of a pickle with taking care of things if we have been out of town and something went wrong and we help them if they are out of town. However, a few months ago DH decided that we should invite them on a beach vacation. I thought it a bit odd. He did the inviting but they kind of hummed and hawed and I think it felt a bit awkward to them. In the end - they never agreed and we ended up deciding not to go at this time - probably a good thing . . .
Now I am wondering if DH was hoping to spend more time with her. Am I just overthinking things or am I just blind . . . Does it seem a bit odd? BTW we have been married over 20 years and we have only vacationed with immediate family members before.
In thinking back on things I am wondering if I have been just plain stupid about some things. We have some great neighbors -husband and wife - but have not been extremely close. We don't do dinners or hang out. We talk to them every few days if we are out in the yard and they have bailed us out of a pickle with taking care of things if we have been out of town and something went wrong and we help them if they are out of town. However, a few months ago DH decided that we should invite them on a beach vacation. I thought it a bit odd. He did the inviting but they kind of hummed and hawed and I think it felt a bit awkward to them. In the end - they never agreed and we ended up deciding not to go at this time - probably a good thing . . .
Now I am wondering if DH was hoping to spend more time with her. Am I just overthinking things or am I just blind . . . Does it seem a bit odd? BTW we have been married over 20 years and we have only vacationed with immediate family members before.
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