Here is my new thread. I will maintain this one as long as needed. To refresh everyone here is my quick story.
The only thing I did wrong was smother her and was insecure. Girls nights etc was usually always a fight, I was cheated on my first marriage so I drug into my second and held on everytime I thought she was slipping. She asked for me to make changes several times it would last only temp. She blames herself for not taking a firmer stance with me. Right before we split she uttered the words mid life crisis she lost a ton of weight in 09 kept it off, went back to school this year. I think a light went off in her head between the inconsistent changes and her mid life crisis. We met in her our early 20s and when she hit 30 I noticed some small crisis going on. Every bday since 30 was im not 30 im not 31 im not 32. She did put her all in after 9 years she was done. Of course I was not. I am going to counseling and seeing that through for me and my boys.
The only thing I did wrong was smother her and was insecure. Girls nights etc was usually always a fight, I was cheated on my first marriage so I drug into my second and held on everytime I thought she was slipping. She asked for me to make changes several times it would last only temp. She blames herself for not taking a firmer stance with me. Right before we split she uttered the words mid life crisis she lost a ton of weight in 09 kept it off, went back to school this year. I think a light went off in her head between the inconsistent changes and her mid life crisis. We met in her our early 20s and when she hit 30 I noticed some small crisis going on. Every bday since 30 was im not 30 im not 31 im not 32. She did put her all in after 9 years she was done. Of course I was not. I am going to counseling and seeing that through for me and my boys.
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