My friend is 37 years old working in a MNC doing quite well for herself and has a 8 year old boy. Hers was a love marriage to a small-time doctor but she couldnot adjust in joint family so left his house within 5 years of marriage and shifted to her moms house in the same city. But both hubby n wife were meeting on weekends and this continued for 3 more years. Later she felt this was not working as the kid was crying without father so she asked hubby to stop visitng her totally. So he stopped weekend end visits too.
Hubby is my friend too , we are all common friends. He couldnot leave his parents and start a new family with wife. He sort of got used to staying alone. Wife's parents were on her side and never let daughter to move in or compromise with in-laws. In-laws( doc's parents) are nice people but my friend never got along with them or even his sister.
But the doc hubby is still in love with wife and he himself confessed to me many times. He was just helpless and couldnot take a decision to be with parents or wife.
Now things suddenly changed when the kid turned 8 and wanted dad to stay with them. So he was called by the kid and his mom for diwali to their house. Discussions again started on where to stay as the kid was growing up and . But the doc didnot inform his parents that he would be staying at his inlaws place and try to convince the lady and bring her home. He lied to them that he was there for 20 days only. He is planning to extended slowly till he convinces wife to come home.
He doesnot want to live separately as it means leaving his old parents alone.
Im friends with both husband and wife and they ask me for advice.
I actually dont know if the guy really loves his wife as he doesnot want to stay in her parents house and also separately leaving his parents.
WOrse thing is this lady and her parents brainwashed the little child that his dada's house is dirty and they dont let his dad to come n meet him. They poisoned his little brain so he thinks nana's house is his house.
He wants her to come back but she is not comfortable.
the lady threatned the hubby to give him a divorce but never did. Hubby is not ready for divorce and loves his wife.
How do you think this will end?
Can he remain in inlaws place forever? How long can he lied to his parents?
Will the child let him go even if he wants to?
What do u think will happen now?
What advice should I give as a friend?
What amazes me is how can a husband still love a wife like her? or is he lying?
The guy says he cant leave his son now but how he can stay in inlaws place? So what would happen now? How do you guys foresee the future of this marriage?
Hubby is my friend too , we are all common friends. He couldnot leave his parents and start a new family with wife. He sort of got used to staying alone. Wife's parents were on her side and never let daughter to move in or compromise with in-laws. In-laws( doc's parents) are nice people but my friend never got along with them or even his sister.
But the doc hubby is still in love with wife and he himself confessed to me many times. He was just helpless and couldnot take a decision to be with parents or wife.
Now things suddenly changed when the kid turned 8 and wanted dad to stay with them. So he was called by the kid and his mom for diwali to their house. Discussions again started on where to stay as the kid was growing up and . But the doc didnot inform his parents that he would be staying at his inlaws place and try to convince the lady and bring her home. He lied to them that he was there for 20 days only. He is planning to extended slowly till he convinces wife to come home.
He doesnot want to live separately as it means leaving his old parents alone.
Im friends with both husband and wife and they ask me for advice.
I actually dont know if the guy really loves his wife as he doesnot want to stay in her parents house and also separately leaving his parents.
WOrse thing is this lady and her parents brainwashed the little child that his dada's house is dirty and they dont let his dad to come n meet him. They poisoned his little brain so he thinks nana's house is his house.
He wants her to come back but she is not comfortable.
the lady threatned the hubby to give him a divorce but never did. Hubby is not ready for divorce and loves his wife.
How do you think this will end?
Can he remain in inlaws place forever? How long can he lied to his parents?
Will the child let him go even if he wants to?
What do u think will happen now?
What advice should I give as a friend?
What amazes me is how can a husband still love a wife like her? or is he lying?
The guy says he cant leave his son now but how he can stay in inlaws place? So what would happen now? How do you guys foresee the future of this marriage?
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