Sex with my wife was hot until three years ago, when she had her Physical Affair (PA). I felt rejected not only by this, but also by her insistence that she was going to concentrate on her friends. She never fully understood what I was going through. Then I found myself in the arms of another woman. I shouldn't have done it; I was lonely. This happened 6 months after her PA. To this day she hasn't forgiven me.
She never was one much for affection, but now it's non-existent. We are lucky if we have sex now twice a month. I'm 50 years old and I'm having trouble with my sex drive. Cialis helps a lot, but she thinks it's psychological. She says that it's because of my guilt for what I did. She doesn't believe that it's because my testosterone level is dropping and it's difficult to get an erection. She gets mad if I can't get it up. She gets mad if I can get it up and don't last long.
She has transferred all of the problems we are having to me alone.
I have asked her to go to joint marriage counseling in the past. She has refused this and has gone to marriage counseling alone. She said that she needs to take care of herself. She keeps saying that she's unhappy.
It will be 25 years of marriage next April. It's frustrating living like this. All of our kids are grown, except for our 12 year old daughter. I think I keep hanging in there for her. My world has turned upside down, but I don't want hers to if her parents separate and/or divorce.
Thank you for your time.
She never was one much for affection, but now it's non-existent. We are lucky if we have sex now twice a month. I'm 50 years old and I'm having trouble with my sex drive. Cialis helps a lot, but she thinks it's psychological. She says that it's because of my guilt for what I did. She doesn't believe that it's because my testosterone level is dropping and it's difficult to get an erection. She gets mad if I can't get it up. She gets mad if I can get it up and don't last long.
She has transferred all of the problems we are having to me alone.
I have asked her to go to joint marriage counseling in the past. She has refused this and has gone to marriage counseling alone. She said that she needs to take care of herself. She keeps saying that she's unhappy.
It will be 25 years of marriage next April. It's frustrating living like this. All of our kids are grown, except for our 12 year old daughter. I think I keep hanging in there for her. My world has turned upside down, but I don't want hers to if her parents separate and/or divorce.
Thank you for your time.
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