Need some advice guys!
This is quite a long story so will try and make it as simple as poss
Was with this guy for 7 years I loved him soooooo much safe to say I adored him and we had quite a good life together for the first 3 years then I found out I was pregnant with our daughter ( she was planned) 4 mths after she was born things started changing we started arguing and split for a little while which he was taking someone else out to lunch (female) at that time .. anyway we got back together it was hard going because I then had trust issues I was having messages on the dreaded facebook warning me to keep an eye on him even tho they didn't have any proof anything was actually going on... bits and pieces were happening that wasn't quite right but rose tinted glasses and all that.
now a year ago we went through a rocky patch he moved out we were both devastated he was still coming over, helped me move , texted a lot, came out with me and the kids and did fall back into bed a couple of times etc. but also being nasty making my life hard then I got told he was living with a women a mth after we split!!! I was heart broken he moved out of hers and went to his parents he was hell bent on getting me back ... in the end I gave in and he came back.
now 5 weeks ago he was moody showing signs of the same patterns so I finished things completely all I cared about was he continued to be a good dad to our daughter. i was getting texts from him arguing and he also sent me a pic of him crying :boggled:, it did pull at my heart strings. when i drop our daughter off to him he would pull a face and pick at me and i have no idea why ive since found out hes actually with someone new who i get the feeling hes quite keen on.... it hurts but it is over with us. and i told him fair play BUT how dare he messages me send pic when hes been dipping his wick into someone else! and be sooooooooo nasty to me! :(
the advice i would like specially from men is why act like that? he has ment to have moved on with someone new but why be really horrible to me to the point im in tears. it got so bad that a week ago i changed my number and i now only go through his mum regarding our daughter its so hard because for 7 years we have been in contact every day im hurting that he can move on so quickly but im more hurt that he talks to me like crap :(
This is quite a long story so will try and make it as simple as poss
Was with this guy for 7 years I loved him soooooo much safe to say I adored him and we had quite a good life together for the first 3 years then I found out I was pregnant with our daughter ( she was planned) 4 mths after she was born things started changing we started arguing and split for a little while which he was taking someone else out to lunch (female) at that time .. anyway we got back together it was hard going because I then had trust issues I was having messages on the dreaded facebook warning me to keep an eye on him even tho they didn't have any proof anything was actually going on... bits and pieces were happening that wasn't quite right but rose tinted glasses and all that.
now a year ago we went through a rocky patch he moved out we were both devastated he was still coming over, helped me move , texted a lot, came out with me and the kids and did fall back into bed a couple of times etc. but also being nasty making my life hard then I got told he was living with a women a mth after we split!!! I was heart broken he moved out of hers and went to his parents he was hell bent on getting me back ... in the end I gave in and he came back.
now 5 weeks ago he was moody showing signs of the same patterns so I finished things completely all I cared about was he continued to be a good dad to our daughter. i was getting texts from him arguing and he also sent me a pic of him crying :boggled:, it did pull at my heart strings. when i drop our daughter off to him he would pull a face and pick at me and i have no idea why ive since found out hes actually with someone new who i get the feeling hes quite keen on.... it hurts but it is over with us. and i told him fair play BUT how dare he messages me send pic when hes been dipping his wick into someone else! and be sooooooooo nasty to me! :(
the advice i would like specially from men is why act like that? he has ment to have moved on with someone new but why be really horrible to me to the point im in tears. it got so bad that a week ago i changed my number and i now only go through his mum regarding our daughter its so hard because for 7 years we have been in contact every day im hurting that he can move on so quickly but im more hurt that he talks to me like crap :(
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