I'm starting this thread for Remorseful Strayer so that the flame wars (I think that's what they're called) do not follow him into each and every thread he posts in.
I'll start.
Strayer, I do not agree with you when you state that your affair was your wife's fault. Regardless of the fact that your marriage was sexless you had options. You could have filed for divorce. You could have tried to stage an intervention in your marriage. You could have just lived with no sex until your children were grown and then left her. You had options to attempt to fix your marriage or end it honorably. Instead you chose to cheat and regardless of how many therapists you have bamboozled into agreeing with you, you still violated your marriage vows and disrespected your wife and family.
And just so you know. I am not a "dump the cheater" poster. In fact I encourage all BS's to try to reconcile their marriages whenever possible. However I also realize that reconciliation is only possible with a spouse that is truly remorseful and honestly values the marriage and the BS. I do not think you are remorseful despite your moniker. In other threads you have asked me many questions which I have answered without hesitation. However, you have repeatedly refused to answer any questions about yourself or your situation. Instead you have continually invaded other people's threads all the while trying to blame those BS's for their spouse's affairs. I give you this thread and this opportunity to not only tell your story but to defend your views on infidelity so that those that really need help and advice can receive it.
I'll start.
Strayer, I do not agree with you when you state that your affair was your wife's fault. Regardless of the fact that your marriage was sexless you had options. You could have filed for divorce. You could have tried to stage an intervention in your marriage. You could have just lived with no sex until your children were grown and then left her. You had options to attempt to fix your marriage or end it honorably. Instead you chose to cheat and regardless of how many therapists you have bamboozled into agreeing with you, you still violated your marriage vows and disrespected your wife and family.
And just so you know. I am not a "dump the cheater" poster. In fact I encourage all BS's to try to reconcile their marriages whenever possible. However I also realize that reconciliation is only possible with a spouse that is truly remorseful and honestly values the marriage and the BS. I do not think you are remorseful despite your moniker. In other threads you have asked me many questions which I have answered without hesitation. However, you have repeatedly refused to answer any questions about yourself or your situation. Instead you have continually invaded other people's threads all the while trying to blame those BS's for their spouse's affairs. I give you this thread and this opportunity to not only tell your story but to defend your views on infidelity so that those that really need help and advice can receive it.
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