| hello all, well i have a problem and no one seems to have any advice on how to handle it....well most of my life i have been superwoman for everyone...helping take care of my nieces and nephews...driving people where they need to be...giving money when i can...took care of my my mom when she got cancer (shes better by the way)..food shopping...doing nieces hair..taking them school shopping...well i move out of my mothers house this year sometime in June...I'm living with my fiancee...i have a car and my mom doesn't...she takes care of my 8 year old niece...so i have to take them where they want and need to go...only problem is this has been going on for sometime now (since i was 19..im now 27)...i want to go back to school..but every time i attempted go..i have to put the things i wanna do on hold because it doesn't fit into my running my mom and my niece around....right now im not working so my fiancee takes care of all of the bills....but i want to help out by working as well but, it s like i cant because of my mother....im trying to be a good daughter..aunt and wife to be but its frustrating....I'm tired of putting things on hold for everyone or me having to compromise what i want to do...it has cuz fight between me and my fiancee because he says i live with him and im still putting my mothers house first....i just dont know what to do...i mean shes my mom and in some way i feel guily if i just say no im not doing this anymore | |||
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stressed out..
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