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LD wife - How do you not take it personal?

My wife is perfectly happy with having sex 1 time per month, if even that. She told me to go find a nympho when I told her i would be happy with 1-2 times per week. She thinks her LD is perfectly normal and that I'm just a sex addict for wanting it 1-2 times per week.

How do you not take a LD spouse personal? Questions pop into my head like is it her having a LD due to nature or am I the reason for her LD? Is she having an affair? Has she no attraction for me? Am I to fat, ugly, etc for her?

All this rejection and doubt really drags me down and makes me become a man/husband that I dont want to be. I get irritable, selfish, and withdrawn. Her issues may not be because of me at all, but how in the hell do you not take it personal? Especially when she thinks she is perfectly normal and doesnt think this is a problem that needs to be worked on?


P.S. - for the record, i know she is not having an affair. It would be nearly impossible for her to pull off without raising suspicions for various reasons so I scratched that off the list of why she is LD with me.




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