| We've been dating 3 years, living together for 1.5 years. I want to get married, he says he doesn't because it changes people. He says he's not saying he won't ever marry me, just not now. We've both been in previous long term marriages. We are both early 50's. We both talk about plans for the future, our goals are much the same, about the only thing we don't agree on is marriage. If it matters (and it always matters, right?) he would struggle financially more than I would if we go our separate ways. So no I"m not wanting marriage for the financial security. Anyone else in this situation and how did it pan out? I'm not, today, at this very moment, willing to walk away from an other wise great relationship over the marriage issue. I do know it will eventually cause resentment, which poisons a relationship. | |||
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I want marriage, he doesn't
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