Story time: Sharing my experience/thoughts on relationship/uni/sex

Hey people, I just want to share some of my experience , and thoughts on the topic of relationships and sex to see if anybody shares my view. Feel free to comment/discuss even if you see things differently. I am finishing my 2nd year at uni, and have enjoyed my time there a lot. I've made many friends, including some that I'd love to keep for the rest of my life. I have attended boarding schools since the age of nine. The schools were all boys school all the way until sixth form. Bullying was of a major concern to me throughout school. My communication skill with the opposite sex was not good at all, and I found it hard to approach a girl without shying away. As boys do, I found myself thinking about girls quite a bit. Even though I've reached quite a high, respected position towards end of my school years, I have not managed to attract the opposite sex, mainly because of my reluctance to approach and awkwardness (In retrospect). I also didn't have many real friends, and was kind of an outcast, though I was respected. This has really hampered my confidence, and I have really questioned my physical attractiveness. So I went through school as virgin. Before uni, I was quite scared about making new friends, and pressuring myself to have sex / get a girlfriend (with influence from society and schoolmates, as they've all had 'experience'). Half way through the first year, to my surprise, I've made many friends, male and female, and found that I really wasn't that bad at socialising. I've developed a sharp sense of humour, and most importantly, my confidence. I now find that there really is no point pushing my self to gain sexual experience, and I am now only passively looking for the perfect one. I am quite old fashioned, as I would rather find someone to have a long lasting relationship with, than short term/one night stand, hence I don't really go to clubs (and I can't dance, I tried many times). I am now quite happy as I am, though I do get jealous sometimes when I see couples walking by, and DO think about sex, a lot, which I think is normal. I no longer think that I am bad looking (some would say that I am quite good looking...may be out of politeness...). And yes, I am still a virgin. Thanks for reading my story.

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