Should I trust him?

I'll try to make this short. My husband of 15 years works in the hospital and a nurse, X, had been texting him for several months. Her first text to him was - 'you are a wonderful person and a wonderful father. ' If he didn't see her on the nurse's floor, he would text and ask where she was. They texted off working hours. Later texts inquired when the other one was working their next weekend. When I confronted him he said I was ridiculously paranoid and they were just friends. I told him not to talk to her anymore. After much discussion he said it would be easy because her friendship meant nothing to him. He still accused me of not wanting him to have friends and it would no longer be enjoyable for him when he needed to go to the hospital. Two weeks went by and she texted asking if everything was OK. He fine, just busy. She said ' OK just want you to know I think you are are a great person, great father and you mean so much to me and the nurses on this floor. ' The texting stopped and he seemed a bit down. A few months later, on a weekend he needed to call the hospital for work, and went into another room so I couldn't hear. He discussed the work issue in a very flirty demeanor. Again I confronted him and he said he acted like that because she ignores him now and he feels bad for her. I was so upset, I didn't want to talk to him . He decided it would be best to confront her and tell her their friendship was hurting his marriage. I told him just to stop talking to her. Fast forward two more months. He seemed to be back to acting super happy, almost like a kid again. Maybe I am paranoid, but one morning he was taking extra special care getting ready for work. He was busy so I answered his, cellphone call. It was from the office staff telling him nurse X called and wants him to call her back. I had him return the call while I listened, he was nervous. She said, " I know you said you were stopping by later this afternoon, but I have a question about someone's therapy." at which point I stopped listening. Again he had told me she did not talk to him anymore, yet on the phone she did not sound mad but friendly. Yes, there was no flirting on her end but she was also receiving a call while working. Don't know why he denied she said "I know you said you were stopping by later.." we heard the same conversation. He said she was now business- like. I tried to explain why I didn't trust her. He rolled his eyes , walked away and said," I know, I know you think she is manipulative. You will believe what you want and there is nothing that I can say otherwise. " So if I bring it up he gets angry. I love him and want to believe him but I don't trust her and don't understand why he gets angry and just walks away. He says I can't get over it.

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