Hired a lawyer and he flipped out

Short back story: he had an EA, blames me for everything. Tried fake R then he came out and said he never loved me but tried and I didn't earn his love nor was attractive etc. I'm alone here without family. Stayed at home by mutual decision. Been trying to get a job and any extra gigs in the mean time. Every single day is a new abuse about me getting out of the apartment and how I'. Lazy and leeching off his money and not letting him go. He was supposed to have file for divorce in April. All I asked for was alimony till I get a job. He said no. I also wanted to make sure I remain primary custodian since he really never spends time with DS not can take care of him. He said no. So I hired a lawyer after and his family made calls for my son to travel again my wishes. He flipped out and lost his mind. Holes punched in the walls and he even punched me. He then said I was wasting my money cuz he has previously agrees to everything. A lie. And threatened to kill himself! So he probably did all of this to manipulate me. But now I'm wondering what effects this might have on him :$ how do you guys deal with the litigation and ex spouses reactions to it? Like he warned the divorce and threatened me a million times about getting the hell out of his life. He should be happy it's finally coming.

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