From zero to 3 girls in 1 week

hi everyone. some of you might recognize me by my username. I usually post about pedestrian problems and things like "Oh does she like me?". Yeah i'm a real loser. Anyways, i've gotten myself into a jam. I don't have a girlfriend, but in a matter of a few days, i've managed to hookup with 2 girls, and one desperately wanting to hang out with me. Girl 1) We went out a few times, but each time we ended up hanging out with our group of friends and her brother (who i've known for a while) I felt that she was just using me to show off to her friends or something, and so one night I made it very clear that I want some alone time with her and without friends, and that i know what im looking for and i said it confidently to her, which turned her on because she's the type of girl that like when a guy takes charge.We did spend a night at her cabin all alone, and the second night we came back to my place. We did end up getting very intimate and the next day she asked me if I want to be her grad date (she's 18, i'm 20). She did make it clear though that if i don't come it's perfectly fine, and she made it sound like she might have already asked someone else, but decided to ask me because i guess she thinks I'm"her" boy now or something. i havent replied to te grad invite yet. Girl 2) We had a little thing when we were camp counselors at the age of 16. She was willing to get in a relationship with me but I didn't take it seriously, I was immature and thought she would be there waiting for me when I needed her. She dated my friend for a few years and recently broke up. She texted me saying that and that she misses me and wants to "hang out". i liked her a lot but now i think she just wants a rebound. Girl 3) On my soccer team one of the girls brings her friends to watch us play. For the past half year i've been making comments about one of her friends like "wow she's hawt". I wasn't expecting to actually meet her or anything, i just wanted to start a conversation with the girl on my team. Anyways we finally met one night and she wanted my number (i guess the girl on the team kept telling her I thought she was beautiful). So after our soccer game she goes and gets pretty juiced and then ends up coming to my place for a movie around 2am. I did kind of insist that she should come, if she wasnt doing anything. We made out and i asked her to stay the night with me so we could cuddle (i didn't make it sound gay like I just did here lol). She said she would but her mom is waking her up in the morning. After leaving she texts me that I am great and would gladly stay another night in the near future. Ughh...going from posting about how to get girls on a forum to what to do when 3 girls are on you. The past few years have been full of rejections, no response from texts,last minute cancellations for coffee then never texting again....and then all of a sudden when I'm not trying, boom, 3 sexy girls want at me. I don't want to hurt these girls, (mainly 1 and 3) by being a "player", although i dont even know what that really means.. BTW that is the order they surfaced in my life, 1,2, then 3 these past few days/weeks. I am not officialy together or "dating" any one of these girls, and so I can say that I don't have a girlfriend as of yet. advice appreciated. thanks

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