Married 7 years, I am pregnant with our first bub, due to have C section in 5 weeks. I have been talking with H about the day and how I want him to be with me during the procedure and present for when they pull the baby out.
He is feeling really uncomfortable about it. He us one of those guys who can't handle period talk and I don't think it would be easy for him.
In my mind, I feel I am the one with more to fear. To become pregnant at all was a huge step for me, as I have a full on phobia of child birth. Getting cut open while conscious comes in second but I would much prefer this than natural birth. I feel like I am the one facing my biggest fesrsvin life for him and I want him to be there for me. But now second guessing myself.
Does he need to man the F up or do I need to be sensitive to his needs here?
He is feeling really uncomfortable about it. He us one of those guys who can't handle period talk and I don't think it would be easy for him.
In my mind, I feel I am the one with more to fear. To become pregnant at all was a huge step for me, as I have a full on phobia of child birth. Getting cut open while conscious comes in second but I would much prefer this than natural birth. I feel like I am the one facing my biggest fesrsvin life for him and I want him to be there for me. But now second guessing myself.
Does he need to man the F up or do I need to be sensitive to his needs here?
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