DEAR SUGAR, The Rumpus Advice Column #81: A Bit Of Sully In Your Sweet - The Rumpus.net
I'm a WS turned BS and after having read the whole column plus the comments and all i can say is, what a terrible stance
Everyone knows that marriage is not a fairytale and not perfect and we are all human, but to use those reason as defense for infidelity is really lousy. I think all adult knows that marriage can be boring at time but infidelity is not tolerable. And yes we're all human but NOT all human cheats, some are liars while some respect their respective spouses enough not to cheat. The column writer also said that the asker who thinks that infidelity is a deal breaker is false. There's a hidden implication that the asker (who's engaged to be married) should adjust her expectation and should forgive cheating.
Terrible advice after all, what do you think ?
I'm a WS turned BS and after having read the whole column plus the comments and all i can say is, what a terrible stance
Everyone knows that marriage is not a fairytale and not perfect and we are all human, but to use those reason as defense for infidelity is really lousy. I think all adult knows that marriage can be boring at time but infidelity is not tolerable. And yes we're all human but NOT all human cheats, some are liars while some respect their respective spouses enough not to cheat. The column writer also said that the asker who thinks that infidelity is a deal breaker is false. There's a hidden implication that the asker (who's engaged to be married) should adjust her expectation and should forgive cheating.
Terrible advice after all, what do you think ?
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