So to make this short. My bf and I are to be engaged soon and he just asked my father for my hand. A little background info: my dad and I aren't close at all and my mother hasn't been in the picture since I was born. Because my father and I aren't close, we don't speak to each other much and I definitely do not share personal information with him plus I'm a private person. My bf and I have been dating for 4 years and my father has only him met once. My bf asked my dad for my hand and he told him that they need to get to know each other and didn't give my bf an answer. I don't understand why my father would expect me to bring my bf around him to hang when we both can barely stay in a room together for 10 minutes. If we have a strained relationship then Of course he won't be a part of my life experiences. My bf now resents me and the situation because he has to hurry up and build a relationship with my father before he proposes. I feel so terrible and it's really stressing me out and makes me wonder if I can sustain a relationship with my family. I just need advice because I'm exhausted from them.
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