| Hi guys, I am really needing some advice in regards to my wife who I found out today has been talking dirty to another guy and sent a picture of her breasts to him and shes only been talking tonhim for 2 days. They ueed to be at college together and she used to have a thing for him but never acted upon it. She had been acting very strange since talking to him as been very secretive, always keeping her phone with her and smiling frequently when texting. I could tell something was suspicious but when I brought it up with her yesterday she swore down that they were just friends and nothing was happening. I was stupid enough to look through her messages and found a few disturbing messages. I then questioned her today about it and said that if nothing is going on then she'd let me look at her messages. She got very defensive at this so I took the phone and looked through it and she was trying her hardest to stop me but failed. The message I saw stated that her breasts were lovely and it confirmed my suspicions. We had a heated discussion and she admitted that she has feelings for him and wants to sleep with him. I told her if it'd make her feel better then she could sleep with him to get it out of her system but only as a test. Low and behold she went straight to her phone and was actually going to ask him until I put her straight why id said it. I didnt want to be controlling but told her it was either him or me and she said that she loves and wants to be with me but still wanted to talk with this guy but only as friends. Honestly I couldnt allow that for obvious reasons but im just so confused as to why she's doing this. She claims its because I haven't shown her any affection or love and because he showed he liked her so she decided to initiate it. I just dont know where to go with this and would be devistated if I lost her. Any advice would be brilliant TIA | |||
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