Should I confront my ex to gain closure

Hi guys I just wanted to get some advice on confronting an ex to gain closure Basically I've maintained no contact for nearly 3 months now and basically still struggling to let go of this anger and hate I have for him. It was my first relationship and just cannot believe that I lost my virginity to someone who didn't love me and I've emotionally invested in the relationship so you could say I feel short changed by the whole thing. I feel like telling my ex how much he actually hurt me, emotionally tortured and used. That he should have been honest in the first place if he wasn't ready for a relationship. His action has effected me so much and he turned me into something I wasn't, I was happy and confident love who I was before I met him but he turned me I to an ugly needy jealous person. I was never in need or desire power or control but they way he treated me slowly turned me into that. I never where I was in his heart and stuff so I was always confused and insecure. Sorry this relationship has effected me badly and I just want some clarity or some thing . I shouldve have told him on the day that we broke up but I couldn't at that time I just froze. Please help guys what should I do? Posted from TSR Mobile

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