In a sex slump

We are in a sex slump these days and I am not sure what to do about it if anything. It seems like I am the one doing all the work to get things going - and hubby seems like he could really just take it or leave it. When he goes along with it - not much effort or passion is displayed. I am to the point of saying fine -we'll leave it then! I realize things change as we age, so maybe this is just a natural slow down progression for him and I should just let nature take its course. But the problem is, I am really kind of starting to resent how very little effort and creativity he is putting into our sexual relationship these days! (I know, I know - it's probably karma.) And I have to be honest - his weight increase the past 2 years is really bugging me, and I believe contributes to some of his slowing down. I know it definitely contributes to my feelings of not wanting to initiate anymore. I think I am just going to pull back awhile and see what happens! Wonder if he will even notice! (Short background: We are mid 50's. I was LD most of our marriage until 7 - 8 years ago when I got my act together and actually became the HD. Things have been really good but been sliding (on his part) this past year. :( )

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