The following items are required to maintain a successful marriage
Consistent, ongoing, never let up, very generous, mindful, present, thoughtful ...
1. Romance and pursuit (you are NOT done just because you're married so don't even go there)
2. Enthusiastic sexual intimacy (or you don't deserve to keep your marriage sorry)
3. Healthy boundaries (your spouse needs to feel secure and its your job to assist with that)
4. Enjoyable conversation that does not discuss responsibilities and problems (Slap yourself silly if you bring up bills and go sit in solitary confinement)
5. ALONE together time OUTSIDE the house in hot pursuit of active FUN (Get off your arse, stretch and get your shoes on we're leaving lover)
6. Humor (make your lover laugh any way you can every day)
7. Flirtation (make your spouse feel desired, special, giddy, pursued)
8. Mutual support of goals (It aint all about your goals. You also get behind your lover on their lane)
9. Time apart pursuing your interests to remain interesting and generate conversation and sharing (Be an interesting companion
10. Balance financial responsibility with the cost of making memories and comforts of home and hobbies (Be a maker and a saver carefully balanced with cheerful expensing of investments in the cost your memorable activities, enjoyable possessions and equipment for hobbies)
11. Understanding that you get out what you put in (If you neglect your investments of time, energy and treasure, your marriage will neglect you back)
12. Growing problem solving skills and efforts to acquire them (Put in the work to figure things out)
13. Patience Yes Pettiness No (They will drive you nuts so pick your battles and let the some go)
14. Smile at your spouse (It creates good will and reciprocation)
15. Physical, emotional and social fitness (take care of yourself. Its no fun being with a train wreck)
Consistent, ongoing, never let up, very generous, mindful, present, thoughtful ...
1. Romance and pursuit (you are NOT done just because you're married so don't even go there)
2. Enthusiastic sexual intimacy (or you don't deserve to keep your marriage sorry)
3. Healthy boundaries (your spouse needs to feel secure and its your job to assist with that)
4. Enjoyable conversation that does not discuss responsibilities and problems (Slap yourself silly if you bring up bills and go sit in solitary confinement)
5. ALONE together time OUTSIDE the house in hot pursuit of active FUN (Get off your arse, stretch and get your shoes on we're leaving lover)
6. Humor (make your lover laugh any way you can every day)
7. Flirtation (make your spouse feel desired, special, giddy, pursued)
8. Mutual support of goals (It aint all about your goals. You also get behind your lover on their lane)
9. Time apart pursuing your interests to remain interesting and generate conversation and sharing (Be an interesting companion
10. Balance financial responsibility with the cost of making memories and comforts of home and hobbies (Be a maker and a saver carefully balanced with cheerful expensing of investments in the cost your memorable activities, enjoyable possessions and equipment for hobbies)
11. Understanding that you get out what you put in (If you neglect your investments of time, energy and treasure, your marriage will neglect you back)
12. Growing problem solving skills and efforts to acquire them (Put in the work to figure things out)
13. Patience Yes Pettiness No (They will drive you nuts so pick your battles and let the some go)
14. Smile at your spouse (It creates good will and reciprocation)
15. Physical, emotional and social fitness (take care of yourself. Its no fun being with a train wreck)
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