Its almost been three years since I discovered my husbands affair. He had a mid-life crisis mental break, a drinking problem and we were really disconnected due to lack of communication and his verbal abusive ways. I forgave him right away but his affair continued for a few more months until I kicked him out and had him committed to a hospital ( he was diagnosed bipolar 2). I took him back again two weeks later for the sake of our two sons and because I didnt want to throw away 20 years of marriage. Fast forward to now. We've been in marriage counseling for a year and a half now (we go every two weeks). My problem now and has been is the lack of sex and passion in our relationship. Seems like he's just not that into me like he used to be. I bring this up in therapy quite a bit. We may have sex once a week or not. Hes always tired or its never the right time because one of the boys are home (they got some excuse. Im getting tired of living with a roommate & not a lover. Im 43 and in great shape. Im pretty nice looking too. He has complained in the past that Im too skinny but its because of the stress of his affair that I lost 20lbs and have kept it off. Im 5 feet and 128 lbs, muscular. Did he lose something for me with the affair? Im losing the passion for working on our marriage because of this. No passion, no intimacy, no sex. Why am I still here?:confused::mad:
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