Me and this girl are living in the same house at university with 6 other close friends. For the past several months we have grown incredibly close and stuff started happening between us. A while ago I told her how I feel about her and told her that I like her. Several times after this she said that she just wants to be friends, and then stuff would carry on happening and we would end up in the same bed cuddling etc
The other day she told me for the last time that everything was going to stop and that we were just going to be friends, at which I was clearly upset. She then went to speak to a friend, and came into my room an hour or so later saying that she had changed her mind. She said that I make her really happy and that she just wants to try it with me and see what happens over the next few weeks, and if she decides that it isn't what she wants that we just be friends again. We spent the whole next day being so close, kissing all the time, holding hands in the car when I was driving etc and spent the night together. A couple of days later she told me once again that she wants everything to stop and to be friends, because she is scared it will ruin our friendship. I know for that she likes a guy from her home who is coming to visit in a few weeks. Despite this, she constantly flirts with me, sometimes sleeps in my bed, cu ddles me all the time etc
Despite the fact that she says she only wants to be friends, we still end up kissing etc, and after anything between us happens now she always says that it has to stop, and that I am too persistent and she gives into temptation too easily. Today we were in my bed and ended up kissing and then she just said that she doesn't know what she wants to do. She said she just wants to be friends but is confused as to why it keeps happening between us, and that we both need to try harder to stop it. I just feel like I'm being led on, as stuff still happens even though she only wants to be friends. My friends suggested I ignore her so she realises what she is missing, which is hard to do when we live together. What should I do?
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