I finally told my husband that I didn't want to work on the marriage anymore. We were in our second round of counseling and it was doing nothing but making me want to tell him even more. It wasn't because he wasn't trying to change...he was. It was because it was hurting me to the point of depression because it was that much harder for me to try to work on the marriage. I worked hard for our marriage for years prior to this and I'm just tired. I have nothing to give him. I've lost myself in him and I feel that my issues are so deep that I can't work on myself as well as the marriage.
Now that I've told him, he's professing his love even more but it's just not working and because of this I feel like a horrible person. We've gone through this quite a few times before and I always gave. However, this time I trying to stay strong.
After writing all of this I guess I need to know has anyone ever been in this situation and how did you handle it? I'm hurting because he's hurting, but I don't want to give in.
Now that I've told him, he's professing his love even more but it's just not working and because of this I feel like a horrible person. We've gone through this quite a few times before and I always gave. However, this time I trying to stay strong.
After writing all of this I guess I need to know has anyone ever been in this situation and how did you handle it? I'm hurting because he's hurting, but I don't want to give in.
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