Let's start with the basics I've been married for close to 15 years my wife and I got married fairly young 18 years old respectively, from the beginning things were okay however early on into the marriage I suspected her of cheating as she was constantly secretive about emails and that sort of thing as well as text messages that would come in nonstop from a coworker.
I confronted the situation head-on as I'm very levelheaded and each and every time I addressed it she blew upon my face and threatened to leave I more or less dealt with it because we just had a baby I want to do what I could to keep the family together so I sucked up and took it.
She does not clean at all, the house was a mess so I would have to clean it and still do, the kids have never had a consequence as she feels that children should be able to just have fun. She does have a son from another relationship that is not common for us, who is been a handful from the beginning, but when I married her I excepted her as well as any baggage she had wholeheartedly. Fast forward with the last few years and once again the majority of her friends are male and although
I feel very uncomfortable in which she conducts herself around them such as dancing very close with them hugging them is if they were in a relationship themselves secretly talking to them online each time I bring it up she blows up again and says I'm being paranoid, now on top of all this our noncommon son has started using drugs and has been arrested several times, as a result of his drug habit he also steals from me, to the tune of thousands of dollars as well as material items.
My wife confronted him the other day as we've caught him stealing from us numerous times and he got very angry and said that I need to leave, and proceeded to call me every Profane name in the book, my wife's response was it will be okay son will work through this, I asked her once again, after attempting to reprimand him myself are you going to let your son talk to me this way, her response was yes. Moving past that our youngest daughter is allowed to have boys older than her, as they grope each other on the couch.
Since everything I have done has fallen upon deaf ears in terms of reprimand I've just begun going to my room very early at night, especially my living arrangement sucks, within the last couple of years my wife has taken on a 14-year-old mentality of her own where she will actually giggle with my youngest daughter on the couch tickling each other or just talk about things that only teenagers with talk about, sometimes very questionable things is the best way to put it in again something that you would never expect a mother to talking to the daughter about, and believe me this is way beyond the cool mother routine.
It's to the point where we were having tax troubles and my youngest daughter who is 13 began to talk to her about it and they were holding a full on conversation talking about my taxes and her taxes, and my wife was actually talking to her as if she was an adult friend saying stuff like i wish these stupid taxes didn't exist, or i'll send the irs a cookie and maybe that will keep quiet for a little while, and then they would both giggle it's insane bizarre best.
a little about our sex life and I want to stay as propers possible but the only position that exist is missionary she would do nothing else to me in bed and unless it's initiated we do not do it, on top of that once again there's a lot of giggling before we do it as if she's 14 years old which is why I just stop doing it because it's almost weird even attempt doing it because it feel not right.
just to clear the air also sometime back I was a former model so by all means I'm considered an 8 and physically very well in shape , my wife has been considered a three at best and ask he had people ask how we really married because we were resemble the odd couple , can someone give me some insight here not sure what to do
I confronted the situation head-on as I'm very levelheaded and each and every time I addressed it she blew upon my face and threatened to leave I more or less dealt with it because we just had a baby I want to do what I could to keep the family together so I sucked up and took it.
She does not clean at all, the house was a mess so I would have to clean it and still do, the kids have never had a consequence as she feels that children should be able to just have fun. She does have a son from another relationship that is not common for us, who is been a handful from the beginning, but when I married her I excepted her as well as any baggage she had wholeheartedly. Fast forward with the last few years and once again the majority of her friends are male and although
I feel very uncomfortable in which she conducts herself around them such as dancing very close with them hugging them is if they were in a relationship themselves secretly talking to them online each time I bring it up she blows up again and says I'm being paranoid, now on top of all this our noncommon son has started using drugs and has been arrested several times, as a result of his drug habit he also steals from me, to the tune of thousands of dollars as well as material items.
My wife confronted him the other day as we've caught him stealing from us numerous times and he got very angry and said that I need to leave, and proceeded to call me every Profane name in the book, my wife's response was it will be okay son will work through this, I asked her once again, after attempting to reprimand him myself are you going to let your son talk to me this way, her response was yes. Moving past that our youngest daughter is allowed to have boys older than her, as they grope each other on the couch.
Since everything I have done has fallen upon deaf ears in terms of reprimand I've just begun going to my room very early at night, especially my living arrangement sucks, within the last couple of years my wife has taken on a 14-year-old mentality of her own where she will actually giggle with my youngest daughter on the couch tickling each other or just talk about things that only teenagers with talk about, sometimes very questionable things is the best way to put it in again something that you would never expect a mother to talking to the daughter about, and believe me this is way beyond the cool mother routine.
It's to the point where we were having tax troubles and my youngest daughter who is 13 began to talk to her about it and they were holding a full on conversation talking about my taxes and her taxes, and my wife was actually talking to her as if she was an adult friend saying stuff like i wish these stupid taxes didn't exist, or i'll send the irs a cookie and maybe that will keep quiet for a little while, and then they would both giggle it's insane bizarre best.
a little about our sex life and I want to stay as propers possible but the only position that exist is missionary she would do nothing else to me in bed and unless it's initiated we do not do it, on top of that once again there's a lot of giggling before we do it as if she's 14 years old which is why I just stop doing it because it's almost weird even attempt doing it because it feel not right.
just to clear the air also sometime back I was a former model so by all means I'm considered an 8 and physically very well in shape , my wife has been considered a three at best and ask he had people ask how we really married because we were resemble the odd couple , can someone give me some insight here not sure what to do
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