So im new to this and i didn't really want to be in this situation but ... il start from the beginning me and my husband have been together 14 months :) married for 5 months it was a quick marriage but i have know him my whole life his been in the family since i was in nappy's lol. we moved away 3 months ago away from family and friends for his job he is in the army and it takes a lot of his time up when he comes home from work i go to work giving us an hour in the morning and 2 hours on the night to spend time together when the kids are asleep. lately we don't talk im not a big talker i keep things to my self as i don't like to argue i have issues of my own that i feel he doesn't understand its always different if there's something up with me that's why i have stopped telling him things when they bother me. i guess im lonely i don't have friends here he does from work but me i have just him and my children i feel that as we don't talk he is getting bored im always tired i want to cuddle but there's always something he'l moan about action in the bedroom but he doesn't understand i spend all my time looking after the children cleaning the house then going to work after cooking. i guess i don't know what to do i want to speak to him but it will cause another argument i want him to understand why im like the way i am. (i have health anxiety which causes me to feel like the world is on my shoulders at times). does any one else feel their husband does not understand them? how shall i deal with this?
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