I've not been making much headway on this lately. The main objective is to find someone from my home country or from that region (culturally rather than geographically), while I haven't really put much effort into it the ones that I had set sights on somehow or rather ended disastrously or should I say it didn't end all that well. It went along the lines of these :-
1) Girl from Singapore, she is similar age as me and has 2 kids from a previous marriage. First she rejected me saying I lived in a different city than her and it wouldn't work, then she had a transfer to be close by, then she said everything was good and it did appear to be working then suddenly she rejected me on the basis that I have kids.
2) Also from Singapore, she is somewhat younger than me. It was going quite well then she found out I had kids and their mother is a White, suddenly I became persona non grata. She claimed if their mother was same race as her then it would be okay. Then she changed her mind for a while as the kids didn't live with me at that time, she again changed her mind then claiming sexual incompatibility.
3) Also from Singapore, she is somewhat younger than me as well. It was going quite well then she said she doesn't do guys who had been with a White.
4) She is from Hong Kong, she is close to my age. I seriously thought this woman was the catch, she loved guys who were career and money-minded, I fit the bill on that one. We had quite a few similar interest and did gel well. I was upfront with her that I have kids, she said it was fine and all that then suddenly she said we had to stop seeing each other because she couldn't accept it that I have kids and then claimed next time if I had any kids with her I would favour the ones. She even had the cheek to say maybe if I made them go away and not spend any money on them she could consider me.
5) Also from Singapore, she is similar aged as me and used to go to school together. Claimed she been crushing on me for years but I was with the ex and then when I was without we went out for a bit then she rejected me on the basis that I didn't share her values, been with a White, had kids and now live in different country. Then she claimed if she wanted to be in relationship with a White she would go for a full-White rather than someone mixed-race.
What I don't get, how come 5 out of 5 ended in rejection. I mean back home I know of people with less money and fugly getting the girl without much of a hitch. I would have thought I'd be a good catch for females I was considering.
Strange flip-side? 5 out of the 5 local females that I had something going for had no such issues, the only reason I rejected them were :-
i) 3 had political or religious believes I couldn't tolerate.
ii) 1 had a baby that is only 4 months old.
iii) 1 she had tattoos all over her body.
Am I doomed or should I keep looking or forget about finding someone from home and stick with someone closer?
Put the internet to work for you.
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