I had an affair and my husband found out.....we are working on mending our relationship and he and i both are committed to staying together. The affair was the biggest error in judgment I have ever made and I am fully committed to providing him with full transparency etc.
That said.....during the "fallout" period after he found out about the affair and our future was uncertain he confided in his sister and all of his family about the affair.....all of the details. Most of his family has accepted me back and after some period of awkwardness I am mending those relationships as well. With one exception, my sister in law.
She has gone out of her way to be mean and hateful to me, has called me a ***** on text along with other unpleasant names. I really have seen a side of her that i never expected and frankly I don't want to have a relationship with her but I do want civility. My husband refuses to step in and tell her to back off because we are mending our relationship. So what do I do? I can't not go to family functions because that makes my husband angry and again we're in the process of trying to mend.
At this point she has decided i'm scum forever because of a bad decision I did make. But this is now driving another wedge between myself and my husband. Any advice?
That said.....during the "fallout" period after he found out about the affair and our future was uncertain he confided in his sister and all of his family about the affair.....all of the details. Most of his family has accepted me back and after some period of awkwardness I am mending those relationships as well. With one exception, my sister in law.
She has gone out of her way to be mean and hateful to me, has called me a ***** on text along with other unpleasant names. I really have seen a side of her that i never expected and frankly I don't want to have a relationship with her but I do want civility. My husband refuses to step in and tell her to back off because we are mending our relationship. So what do I do? I can't not go to family functions because that makes my husband angry and again we're in the process of trying to mend.
At this point she has decided i'm scum forever because of a bad decision I did make. But this is now driving another wedge between myself and my husband. Any advice?
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