I borrowed my boyfriend's old phone while mine was being repaired, and out of pure nosiness I looked through his old texts, which I know was out of order of me.
He has a best friend, and has also been friends with his girlfriend for a while, as they all went to uni together. He still sees the guy a lot, but he (and I) rarely see/speak to the girl. We haven't seen her since just before Christmas, and they don't speak much these days as he felt like she was only texting him when she needed something. He says that while he does like her, she is very bitchy and catty, and has had many fall-outs with other girls as a result. He says she can be very hard to deal with and a drama queen, but his best mate loves her.
I have only met her a few times, and she has always been nice enough to my face. She gave my CV where she works which was nice of her, and I recently offered to help her with something she needed, but we never got to arrange a date, and it was never mentioned since. We have never been friends as such, but I've seen more of her boyfriend with my own boyfriend.
However, I found texts on my boyfriend's phone from her dating from the time me and him had just met and been talking. She knew who I was back then, but didn't really know me.
He had told her about me, and she had found it absolutely hilarious that 'someone like me' was trying to date him. She said I was REALLY ugly, and she assumed that I would have had an equally ugly boyfriend. She told my boyfriend that there was no way he could 'stoop so low', and that I was 'low-level'. She even tried to BAN him from seeing me.
I felt sick when I read this. Even though it wasn't recent, to know someone finds me physically hideous really hurt me. He texted his best mate about what she said and saying that he didn't appreciate it. I haven't told him about this, because it was me who was looking at his old texts.
I take comments to heart, and it's hard because she's someone who everyone considers beautiful. I resent her now and although I never see her, I dread the thought of seeing her.
Should I tell my boyfriend about this? As I mentioned, she has been civil when I see her in person, but she never speaks to me otherwise, and we never go out as a foursome.
Thanks in advance.
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