HELP
i have been with my wife for 6 yrs, married for 23 months, we have 3 kids, 4/3/1.
4 months ago she told me she no longer loves me and wants to separate, i moved out, guessing i would be bk in a few days. i was wrong.
my wife has always been very impulsive and makes bad decisions often. she makes and falls out with friends at the drop of a hat.
2 of her bridesmaids she no longer talks about.
the reason for our separation was she felt i was not emotionally giving enough, she is partly right, i was working long hrs and i suppose i became a bit complacent. But i always put my family first, always provided, always loved.
when we split she surrounded her self with her toxic friend who was saying single life is so much better, she recently had split from her man. within weeks she had introduced her brother to my wife and he soon confessed his undying love for her....
she told me about this and said nothing would ever happen, he is just a friend and he knows where he stands, although she did feel flattered!!
he is still about, texting, calling her, sending poems etc!!!
this has driven me insane, and on a 2 wk prebooked holiday recently i questioned and pushed about this guy, i could not help it. my wife tells me this has pushed her so far away, that she could never love me again and is happy to divorce.
i am distraught. for 4 months i have begged, pleaded, cried, all to the same response... we are over, i will never love you again!
i can not accept this, i set myself up for rejection every day, she has zero interest in sorting it out, marriage councelling, nothing. she is totally dead to the idea of us.
how can i get her to love me again? is this possible? or am i just deluded?
i am in a really bad place right now, i need help. started counceling. but i need help from real people.
PLEASE
i have been with my wife for 6 yrs, married for 23 months, we have 3 kids, 4/3/1.
4 months ago she told me she no longer loves me and wants to separate, i moved out, guessing i would be bk in a few days. i was wrong.
my wife has always been very impulsive and makes bad decisions often. she makes and falls out with friends at the drop of a hat.
2 of her bridesmaids she no longer talks about.
the reason for our separation was she felt i was not emotionally giving enough, she is partly right, i was working long hrs and i suppose i became a bit complacent. But i always put my family first, always provided, always loved.
when we split she surrounded her self with her toxic friend who was saying single life is so much better, she recently had split from her man. within weeks she had introduced her brother to my wife and he soon confessed his undying love for her....
she told me about this and said nothing would ever happen, he is just a friend and he knows where he stands, although she did feel flattered!!
he is still about, texting, calling her, sending poems etc!!!
this has driven me insane, and on a 2 wk prebooked holiday recently i questioned and pushed about this guy, i could not help it. my wife tells me this has pushed her so far away, that she could never love me again and is happy to divorce.
i am distraught. for 4 months i have begged, pleaded, cried, all to the same response... we are over, i will never love you again!
i can not accept this, i set myself up for rejection every day, she has zero interest in sorting it out, marriage councelling, nothing. she is totally dead to the idea of us.
how can i get her to love me again? is this possible? or am i just deluded?
i am in a really bad place right now, i need help. started counceling. but i need help from real people.
PLEASE
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