I met a lad online through facebook who I grew to like, we got on very well, so we met up and had a really good time.
He opened up to me about not having much experience with women, whilst it was no issue to me it was obviously an issue to him.
I told him I liked him, we got a bit flirtacious through messaging and I told him I would teach him how to have sex, exactly what I said was '' I can teach you ;) lol''. I looked at it as banter really, of course I wanted to have sex with him but I didn't mean I would be his little experiment. I think he did though as when he messaged me after that he would constantly ask about the sex thing. In the end it annoyed me and I said to him that it makes him appear like he doesn't even like me at all and he just wants to use me for sex. He apologised and said if he didn't like me then why would he spend so much time speaking to me and then started sending me messages telling me how nice I am and how much of a great person he thinks I am, which I didn't really fall for as I thought he's only saying that to get in my trousers.
I kind of gave him the benefit of the doubt and told him I still liked him. We arranged to meet up but before we met up again he started going on about the sex thing. I told him to shut up, he then said to me he cannot win with me, if he's nice to me I wont give him sex and if he's upfront about it I still wont give him sex. He then said if I back out of meeting him for sex he will be very angry with me, should I meet him for sex or not.
We had fun when we met up originally and I do like him but I don't want to get used for sex, I've had my feelings hurt a lot in the past and I don't want to feel that way again.
Im sorry this is so long and confusing, im confused about it and I feel bad, as if Ive lead him on and made him angry, i dont know if i should just give in.
I don't know what to say to him.
Put the internet to work for you.
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