39 days since DDay...
I finally opened up to two people I know and trust. They knew. They knew??!!??? :confused:
They didn't know without a shadow of a doubt. They didn't have proof. But they knew he was the perfect candidate to stray and they knew some things didn't add up.
I was flabbergasted... Was I so blind??
Those two people and I have a very good, close relationship. Why didn't they say anything?
Overall, it was a good convo though. I'm glad I opened up. It's as if the weight of the entire world has suddenly been lifted from my shoulders.
Hubby made tons of promises when I found out. Now he is sweeping those under the rug, arguing we're doing fine. What are the consequences for him? NONE. I'm hurt. I'm deeply hurt. He had everything here, at home, to make him happy. I mean everything.
Even for little things, he's telling me half truths. For trivial stuff! If he feels he has to 'hide' stuff or withhold from me when it has to do with stupid stuff around the house... I can only imagine the rest....!! 'I didn't feel you needed to know that' is his reply. Can I be the judge of that please?
I've asked numerous time to sit down and talk. Really talk. There are questions I want to ask. There are things I want to know. I want him to tell me everything. No half truths. Of course, he is not keen. He keeps delaying that convo. He says stirring ***t won't help us. I've decided on a day we will have this conversation. I am not giving him a choice.
My sister found out her husband had been cheating on her for a long while and her best friend knew. In fact, the best friend and her husband had gone out with my sister's husband and his lover on a few double dates. I just don't understand such behavior...
Thanks everyone!
Caz
I finally opened up to two people I know and trust. They knew. They knew??!!??? :confused:
They didn't know without a shadow of a doubt. They didn't have proof. But they knew he was the perfect candidate to stray and they knew some things didn't add up.
I was flabbergasted... Was I so blind??
Those two people and I have a very good, close relationship. Why didn't they say anything?
Overall, it was a good convo though. I'm glad I opened up. It's as if the weight of the entire world has suddenly been lifted from my shoulders.
Hubby made tons of promises when I found out. Now he is sweeping those under the rug, arguing we're doing fine. What are the consequences for him? NONE. I'm hurt. I'm deeply hurt. He had everything here, at home, to make him happy. I mean everything.
Even for little things, he's telling me half truths. For trivial stuff! If he feels he has to 'hide' stuff or withhold from me when it has to do with stupid stuff around the house... I can only imagine the rest....!! 'I didn't feel you needed to know that' is his reply. Can I be the judge of that please?
I've asked numerous time to sit down and talk. Really talk. There are questions I want to ask. There are things I want to know. I want him to tell me everything. No half truths. Of course, he is not keen. He keeps delaying that convo. He says stirring ***t won't help us. I've decided on a day we will have this conversation. I am not giving him a choice.
My sister found out her husband had been cheating on her for a long while and her best friend knew. In fact, the best friend and her husband had gone out with my sister's husband and his lover on a few double dates. I just don't understand such behavior...
Thanks everyone!
Caz
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