After 2 years of misery since first DDay and begging him to tell me the truth about everything, I think it might actually happen!!! I am fairly certain that he has not cheated on since 2011 but he has been telling me lies about the stupidest stuff. I have been telling him to be honest, his SA counselor has been telling him to be honest but for whatever reason, last night he went to a marriage counselor by himself and she said he needs to come clean and stop worrying about hurting me with the truth while he is killing me with the lies. Suddenly he seems to get it!!! He works out of state and I was going to see him every weekend but for the last couple weeks we have barely talked because of another lie I caught him in. He was going to call me when he got off work this evening to have "the talk" but I sent him a text telling him to email me everything he wants to tell me. That way I can take my time processing it and not react in a bad way, like I usually do . And it will give him time to figure out everything he needs to tell me. What do you think about doing it this way???/ Am I doing the right thing?:scratchhead:
Put the internet to work for you.
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