I need some advice. The last three years my husband has been deployed on and off. He recently was home for three months, finally some quality time together.
One night I found myself wanting hot sex. I wanted it to be wild, crazy, fun, whatever you want to call it. So, I go for it....minutes into it he asks me a question.
What are you up to? It totally killed the mood for me and I completely shut down. He then followed by...Are you trying to get pregnant? That was it for me after that. I was so embarrassed!
We've been married for 6 years and 2 children together. If he was so worried about it, why didn't he wrap it?
He says he made a mistake and didn't know what he was thinking. Ok, I get it, but now it is so hard for me to want him that way. I just feel so self-conscious more then ever.
I have very low self esteem, I weight 137lbs and am 5'2. I'm 32 years old and really working on my weight. I recently lost 45lbs and still going.
He tells me I'm beautiful, says a lot of nice things. He's a good guy, it's just not there anymore. I'm worried.
Thanks for the feedback in advance.
One night I found myself wanting hot sex. I wanted it to be wild, crazy, fun, whatever you want to call it. So, I go for it....minutes into it he asks me a question.
What are you up to? It totally killed the mood for me and I completely shut down. He then followed by...Are you trying to get pregnant? That was it for me after that. I was so embarrassed!
We've been married for 6 years and 2 children together. If he was so worried about it, why didn't he wrap it?
He says he made a mistake and didn't know what he was thinking. Ok, I get it, but now it is so hard for me to want him that way. I just feel so self-conscious more then ever.
I have very low self esteem, I weight 137lbs and am 5'2. I'm 32 years old and really working on my weight. I recently lost 45lbs and still going.
He tells me I'm beautiful, says a lot of nice things. He's a good guy, it's just not there anymore. I'm worried.
Thanks for the feedback in advance.
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