Hi all,
So I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I really do love him a lot. But we have been out a few times together and I've accidentally had a look at other guys and maybe glanced for a little bit too long. My boyfriend called me up on it and I've been trying to be more careful. Recently, I had a glance at someone and then I realised my boyfriend would be uncomfortable with it so I moved so the guy wouldn't check me out anymore and I wouldn't glance too.
I did cheat on him before (2 years ago) and I know he is very insecure about how he is looking. Yesterday I sent a message to a male friend and I said 'Missing you!' and my boyfriend flipped at me. He flipped for two reasons: saying I missed a guy and that he didn't know who this friend was.
I am always reluctant to TELL him about any male friends I have because he is always jealous and insecure about any guy friends I have. He says that he's 'ok if I tell him' but he constantly checks up on me and goes through my Facebook/ Twitter/ emails/ messages etc. Everything.
I feel like I can't even talk to him because any mention of another guy he just flips out. He thinks that every guy I talk to wants to get with me, which isn't true.
I was just wondering if the problem is me, should I be more open with him, should I not tell guys that I miss them and want to see them (even though they are all friends)... What do you guys think? And please don't be too mean :)!
I also had exams two weeks ago and he was really mad at me for not being able to see him because I wanted to study, so I had to spend the day with him instead of studying. We don't see each other much maybe once or twice a week and if we don't see each other then he gets quite made at me.
So I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I really do love him a lot. But we have been out a few times together and I've accidentally had a look at other guys and maybe glanced for a little bit too long. My boyfriend called me up on it and I've been trying to be more careful. Recently, I had a glance at someone and then I realised my boyfriend would be uncomfortable with it so I moved so the guy wouldn't check me out anymore and I wouldn't glance too.
I did cheat on him before (2 years ago) and I know he is very insecure about how he is looking. Yesterday I sent a message to a male friend and I said 'Missing you!' and my boyfriend flipped at me. He flipped for two reasons: saying I missed a guy and that he didn't know who this friend was.
I am always reluctant to TELL him about any male friends I have because he is always jealous and insecure about any guy friends I have. He says that he's 'ok if I tell him' but he constantly checks up on me and goes through my Facebook/ Twitter/ emails/ messages etc. Everything.
I feel like I can't even talk to him because any mention of another guy he just flips out. He thinks that every guy I talk to wants to get with me, which isn't true.
I was just wondering if the problem is me, should I be more open with him, should I not tell guys that I miss them and want to see them (even though they are all friends)... What do you guys think? And please don't be too mean :)!
I also had exams two weeks ago and he was really mad at me for not being able to see him because I wanted to study, so I had to spend the day with him instead of studying. We don't see each other much maybe once or twice a week and if we don't see each other then he gets quite made at me.
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