I'm unsure about this whole saga.
I was doing an exchange at a University abroad and met a great girl. I have to confess that i loved her at on point but then, she was taking up all my time, costing way too much, and felt inclined to control whether i go drinking and smoking the good stuff with my friends and even went as far as to start arguments with them. As you can imagine, putting me in the most difficult situations. One day i had the most important piece of work to send off but she still insisted on staying in my room naked and this was pretty distracting for me lol. I had treated her like a princess and she just fell ridiculously in-love with me. She was trying to move into my room purposely leaving her things. I was trying to break up with her, but she would cry all day and have tantrums on the street or in class. She is very attractive, but she is a diva. First my friends were jealous and when they saw this side of her, they felt relieved it wasn't them. I tried to break up with her twice but she got so hysterical that i had to retract it and so told her once i'd left, the relationship would not carry on and she was completely mutual about this. At the airport, she got especially hysterical saying i'd used her etc.. which i most definitely didn't. I was a complete gentlemen and explained to her kindly that a Long distance relationship was unlikely to succeed as i had a lot of studying to do etc.. And she wouldn't stop crying so i said we'll try. For the first 6 weeks, i was being inquisitive in her life, saying nothing sexual or insinuating anything that could make her think we are in a relationship. But she mails me 10 times a day telling me how she wants to marry me. She is telling her friends she has a long distance boyfriend and her mum, that she's going to marry me. I'm a cool and respectful, but its freaking me out. She was so beautiful when i first laid eyes on her but after being with her so much and so long, she makes me a tad ill. I can't believe the way i feel. I don't like to talk about people behind their backs, but i need advice on how to tell her the deals off and she should look somewhere else. I could do it easily by email but i think she deserves a phone call or skype as it'll break her heart.
P.s, she was aware on my way home that weve broken up.
Thanks alot.
Hopefully anonymous.
I was doing an exchange at a University abroad and met a great girl. I have to confess that i loved her at on point but then, she was taking up all my time, costing way too much, and felt inclined to control whether i go drinking and smoking the good stuff with my friends and even went as far as to start arguments with them. As you can imagine, putting me in the most difficult situations. One day i had the most important piece of work to send off but she still insisted on staying in my room naked and this was pretty distracting for me lol. I had treated her like a princess and she just fell ridiculously in-love with me. She was trying to move into my room purposely leaving her things. I was trying to break up with her, but she would cry all day and have tantrums on the street or in class. She is very attractive, but she is a diva. First my friends were jealous and when they saw this side of her, they felt relieved it wasn't them. I tried to break up with her twice but she got so hysterical that i had to retract it and so told her once i'd left, the relationship would not carry on and she was completely mutual about this. At the airport, she got especially hysterical saying i'd used her etc.. which i most definitely didn't. I was a complete gentlemen and explained to her kindly that a Long distance relationship was unlikely to succeed as i had a lot of studying to do etc.. And she wouldn't stop crying so i said we'll try. For the first 6 weeks, i was being inquisitive in her life, saying nothing sexual or insinuating anything that could make her think we are in a relationship. But she mails me 10 times a day telling me how she wants to marry me. She is telling her friends she has a long distance boyfriend and her mum, that she's going to marry me. I'm a cool and respectful, but its freaking me out. She was so beautiful when i first laid eyes on her but after being with her so much and so long, she makes me a tad ill. I can't believe the way i feel. I don't like to talk about people behind their backs, but i need advice on how to tell her the deals off and she should look somewhere else. I could do it easily by email but i think she deserves a phone call or skype as it'll break her heart.
P.s, she was aware on my way home that weve broken up.
Thanks alot.
Hopefully anonymous.
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