Hi everyone,
Thanks for getting this far.
I'm in a bit of an awkward point in my life at the moment. I met a girl when I was 18 (she was 19) and we went out with each other for 4 and a half years. It went really great at first and we moved in together. It kind of deteriorated after a couple of years, and we were more "friends with benefits cliche", although neither of us ever admitted it.
One day i was visiting my parents back up in Cumbria, about 3 years ago, and I went on a night out. I ended up meeting this girl who was Danish and we got on great. Went back to her house and we slept together. Stayed at hers for a few days. I ended up texting my first girlfriend of 4 and a half years telling her that I was leaving her. (biggest mistake of my life, but hey, we all make mistakes, right? right??) :/ I didn't once cheat on my last girlfriend - she did it to me a couple of times, and I know how it feels now. So I am pretty sure in myself that I would never do this again.
So I ended up moving in with this new danish girl (in England) for a year, then eventually I moved back to Denmark with her so she could study (she was 20). I was there for about 3 months, but unfortunately, it didnt work out.
So now, I am back in England. I have been here for about a year and a half now, without a girlfriend, and without a job.
I left what few friends I had from school behind when I moved, (I went to a very small school) and now it is literally just me and my cat living in a small house.
I'm struggling to get motivated, and I'm not that confident a person.
If anyone has been in a similar situation (out of work, very few friends etc) and has managed to get their life back on track, or even if you are in a similar situation now, then I would really love to get some advice.
Thanks so much in advance. :)
Mike
Thanks for getting this far.
I'm in a bit of an awkward point in my life at the moment. I met a girl when I was 18 (she was 19) and we went out with each other for 4 and a half years. It went really great at first and we moved in together. It kind of deteriorated after a couple of years, and we were more "friends with benefits cliche", although neither of us ever admitted it.
One day i was visiting my parents back up in Cumbria, about 3 years ago, and I went on a night out. I ended up meeting this girl who was Danish and we got on great. Went back to her house and we slept together. Stayed at hers for a few days. I ended up texting my first girlfriend of 4 and a half years telling her that I was leaving her. (biggest mistake of my life, but hey, we all make mistakes, right? right??) :/ I didn't once cheat on my last girlfriend - she did it to me a couple of times, and I know how it feels now. So I am pretty sure in myself that I would never do this again.
So I ended up moving in with this new danish girl (in England) for a year, then eventually I moved back to Denmark with her so she could study (she was 20). I was there for about 3 months, but unfortunately, it didnt work out.
So now, I am back in England. I have been here for about a year and a half now, without a girlfriend, and without a job.
I left what few friends I had from school behind when I moved, (I went to a very small school) and now it is literally just me and my cat living in a small house.
I'm struggling to get motivated, and I'm not that confident a person.
If anyone has been in a similar situation (out of work, very few friends etc) and has managed to get their life back on track, or even if you are in a similar situation now, then I would really love to get some advice.
Thanks so much in advance. :)
Mike
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