I've got a dilemma so i thought i would ask TSR as you always know best :D Basically, when i was at school i was constantly laughed at by a boy who i took art with. Lets call this boy "Ben". I was laughed at because i was apparently a loser, fat and a geek because i got A*'s/A's at GCSE. Because of these labels, he managed to get the whole YEAR to ignore me. He used to put paint in my bag and put glue in my hair and resort to the old fashion name calling to terrorise me as we had art together. I just ignored it as i was scared in case i got in trouble and because i thought he would get bored and eventually give up but that didn't happen. I didn't go to sixth form as i didn't want it to continue so went to college instead. However, i found out Ben in September had joined the college as he had failed his GCSE's so couldn't go to sixth form and was taking the same bus as me which is an hour journey. On the second day of college, when we were walking on the bus, Ben went and grabbed my butt for a few seconds and started laughing when he saw my shocked face. He started wolf whistling when i walk past and stands up to walk to the back where i sit alone and shouts the SAME thing basically every night so everyone hears and they have started to laugh at me and join in, "Oi, sexy wanna come to mine for some hot sex tonight?", "fancy me taking you out for some chicken?" or "why do you sit alone, wanna join the cool bus crew?" This only happens when i have to sit at the top of the bus where he is with his mates as there is no seats at the bottom. I ignored everything he said because i have no witty remarks to say back to them and would make myself look more of a fool plus i have no confidence so would be scared. He works at poundland at a weekend and he has pictures of himself naked with him only covering his crotch on Facebook. I thought maybe i should print the pics off and send it to his boss but then again i thought maybe they wou ldn't care plus Ben wouldn't know it was me who did it? Or should i come up with some remarks to say back to him as he says similar things each time? Also, what should i do if he tries to grab my butt again? Please help!!!!
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