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Guys don't want to be seen with me and it's damaged my self-esteem.

When I was at uni I was ever so slightly overweight and a little geeky, but still generally pretty. I fell in love with a 'popular' guy and we ended up sleeping together but he threatened me and told me not to tell anyone because he was embarrassed about it. This obviously hurt me quite deeply but I eventually got over it and stopped speaking to him. Fast forward a few years and I met my last boyfriend who seemed to adore me and made me feel amazing - until he refused to introduce me to any of his friends or tell anyone we were together. This has hurt me so much and really hit the old wound for me - although I know I'm attractive (and I do get a lot of attention and people constantly tell me I'm beautiful!) I just can't stop this from making me feel so bad about myself.

Has anyone else had a partner do this to them? How did you deal with it?

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