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How to deal with a boring relationship?

Hey, my relationship with my boyfriend has become so boring in the past few months. It's got to the point that I feel like I would be happier out of it, but I want to be happy in it.

The big problem is all we ever do together is nothing! Recently, our relationship is basically me going to his house a few nights a week, sometimes staying over, watching telly, eating food, watching him play on his stupid games console. I don't think he sees any of it as a problem, but I feel like it's having a bad effect on our relationship - I'm really not happy.

A typical day - I finish work at 5pm and he's asked me to go and see him so I'm there by around 7, he's still playing on his ps3 when I get there, even though he knows I'm on my way so could have finished his game and his game goes on for another half an hour. Then he'll get me a drink and put a TV programme or film on, then we just sit there watching it! I try and make an effort to talk about things but it seems all he wants to do is watch the telly. Then when he gets bored he'll turn the ps3 back on!

Since getting a TV in his room a few months ago he has become so lazy and obsessed with it! It was nice to begin with being able to watch films in bed, I think all he ever does when I'm not there is sit in his room playing games.

We never go out anymore - at the start of our relationship we used to go out quite a lot and socialise with his friends, other couples etc but that's completely stopped.

I now feel like I would be better off on my own, I feel like all the time I spend with him is a waste of time because there's only so much time you can spend in one room before it gets repetitive and unbearable.

At the same time I love him, want to get through it and can't imagine life without him.

When I was at uni and only saw him every 1-2 weekends, time together was so much better. I was even considering going back to uni to improve our relationship - time apart makes the heart grow fonder. But unfortunately that's not an option for me this year so how do I get through this?

I've tried talking to him, but I feel like he doesn't see it as a problem.
'Why don't you learn to play ps3 with me?' is his answer to everything.

I don't want to hurt his feeling but really feel like telling him how sick of it I am!




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