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Loving Cheryl A lifelong clinical study on the art of pleasuring an extraordinary woman Articles on how to bed a bird in flight After 40 years of research these conclusions have been realized In my youth I had been operating under the assumption I knew what I was doing. She was always willing to participate in sexual activities, love making call it what you will. It was always great for me. Seemed to me the same was true for her. Then we married and as a young husband I thought, well she is mine now. I did not feel there was any more to be learned. I was deeply in love with her and felt the same was true for Cheryl. One night after having made love to her she started crying. She had said she felt she was getting what she needed from me or something along those lines. It hit me hard emotionally at that moment not sure of how to improve. I knew that I needed to be a less selfish lover and made attempts on improving to make her more satisfied and feel more loved. Children came one after the other life became as they should about them. There was the occasional pillow talk me trying to get her to open up with her feelings. Seemed imposable for her to express what she was feeling. As I did not want to push on mostly for fear of what the answers would be. To worsen matters I was dealing with my insecurities In our early thirties there were many really good moments in our bed. I recall when she had a pair of white pants size 2 I think I could not keep my hands off of her. Life went on; births and deaths work and so on. Drifting away but not apart love making became just once in a while to hardly any at all. My feeling was either she was not into sex or just not into sex with me I was a coward to ask. I thought well,"she is responsible for her own sexual fulfillment". Turns out that I could not have been more wrong. This sweet hot sensual and sexual being was there all the time I just could never get past my own issues of not being able to please her. Entering my late fifties it really hit me that I was in a practically sexless marriage and not getting any younger. There are only a few more years before the wheels start coming off. I had to find the courage to remedy the situation as I still deeply loved Cheryl and my greatest fear has always been losing her. I felt that she was still not getting what she needed from me. Which is in all probability why the sex and passion had disappeared .I was convinced that when the children were gone she would leave me. I was certain her love for me had diminished. Love but not In Love Well wrong again. Approaching 35 years of marriage I needed to re affirm and rededicate all I have and all that I am to keep her as my wife undeserving as I may be. I have failed her on so many levels .We needed to re connect with each other in a way that only intimacy can do the one thing you share with the only other being on the planet. Lessons Learned • Tell her you love her at every opportunity • Kiss her meaningfully and passionately always • Stop taking all that she does for granted even though you tell yourself that you don't • Keep it fun proceed without expectations let the flow of what's happening guide your desires • Send her messages as early as a week before you hope to make love to her…a text…a simple look …a naughty comment.. a kiss or hug out of nowhere … a subtle touch in an erogenous place .Anything to show her what your intentions are. BAD but in a loving way • Tender loving encouragement coxing her to communicate what is on her mind ,what her concerns are and what will make her happy to open up to what her fantasies are and enact on them • When you get there (In Bed or otherwise Some fun for another topic) Take it slow she needs time to nurture her full emotions and arousal tease and please. • Change it up keep her interested and excited for the anticipation of something new let time go by to build the hunger • Encourage her to take the lead to take control to dominate if she wants to. To demand she gets what's needed to please her • Listen to her breathing anticipate her moves as you move your way around her sweet wondrous body with all her yummy parts. Explore all ways to help her free her mind to maximize her full sexual awareness and potential they are limitless • Never give in to being unsuccessful to please her • Always make her feel safe and secure and let her know her love is a gift • Always let her know how she effortlessly pleases you always • Mostly she needs to be made love to but sometimes she just wants to be ****ed (A new revelation who knew? ) She is so sweet I never would have guessed it .Guess I have not been in tune she is an exotic sexual woman • Always be respectful even with the revelation listed above • Compliment her beauty and intelligence • Have the courage to get the truth of her feeling before they manifest unhappiness for each other • Just lie with her take in the incredible fortune that has been bestowed upon you sharing her life and bed with you .Savor simply in the touch of her skin and the sweet curve of her hips and back In conclusion I find the desire for Cheryl infinitely greater than those size 2 days. Much more women I had envisioned in days past .She was there then but I had not recognized her for what she has always been. I lacked the skill and insight to cultivate her wants and needs. I shall not waste another moment. Imagine it took me this long to get it. I feel now I am just touching the surface of fulfilling her needs and as long as I am capable will continue to improve. I will continue my quest to find more ways to please her. Maybe she will have a few ideas herself. It would be so hot for her to tell me. We are so much better than years ago I love her with all there is in me. I never want to live a day without her.

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